Eyes of Wings Code of Conduct
The Eyes of Wings core values are: safety, unconditional love, the sovereignty of all beings,
personal empowerment, integrity, and authenticity. Our code of conduct is a list of aspirational goals based on these values.
Safety:
- I will express my needs, values, and expectations to the best of my ability.
- I will refrain from cross talk (commenting about or offering advice when someone else shares their feelings or experiences) when engaging with other members.
- I will set boundaries when I need to and will make efforts to protect them if they are crossed. I will ask for help to learn how to set boundaries if needed.
- I recognize that I may be triggered by interactions with other members. I understand that I am responsible for understanding and working through my triggers. I understand that no one can promise complete safety. I understand that the Eyes of Wings attempts to create as much emotional safety as they can and I will alert them to any safety concerns that I experience or witness as soon as possible.
Unconditional Love:
- I will strive to see the other members in their best light and love them as they are. I understand that striving to love someone does not require that I like them or want to have a relationship with them.
- I will treat other members with respect and kindness.
Sovereignty of All Beings:
- I will respect other members’ boundaries and honor their right to have values and needs that are different from my own.
- I will refrain from offering unsolicited advice or coaching.
- When other members ask me for advice, I will offer guidance that respects their values and needs rather than forcing my own perspective.
Personal Empowerment:
- I recognize that I am responsible for my healing journey. It is up to me to identify goals for my growth and to seek support to aid me in achieving my goals.
- I understand that it is my responsibility to provide feedback to those who are supporting me with their services if I feel that they do not understand my goals or their services are not supporting me in achieving my goals.
Integrity:
- I will be honest about my needs, values, and intentions when communicating with other members.
- I will communicate about any need to cancel any appointments at the earliest possible opportunity and will be transparent if I no longer desire those services when appropriate.
Authenticity:
- I will share my feelings, needs, and values with transparency.
- I will honor my strengths and weaknesses and give myself permission to be a messy human being.